To fellow ladies.
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Research had shown that many families are broke, many about to and more in hell!
Any way out???

**As a woman, your major task is keep the home- to ensure that something is on the table at all times. In fact, 'food's ready' should replace your maiden name. In the olden days, people believed that 'women's' education ends in kitchen'. Literally, it means that you are married to do nothing but cook and possibly bear children. In the modern world, i think that this adage means that no matter your financial status, rank, beauty, occupation, certificate, shape etc, the kitchen belongs to you by right. As a matter of factly, I believe this and so should you because if a woman cannot manage her kitchen very well, she should had gone to the convent. Remember that the stomach(food) is the road to EVERY man's heart. If your man can provide, try to cook at least two times daily at the right time no matter what! If there exists friction between husband and wife, if it should be traced, food is inevitably the cause. It is a shame that most ladies had sold their birthright to the maids. modern evening dresses

**Love, care, support, respect and praise your husband and his people genuinely. Respect him even when he is dead drunk.

**Do not be an idle woman. Do works that will earn you money but only those that wont prevent you from looking after your family. Contribute (in terms of finance) if you can to building your family without any noise about it.

**Do not gossip; not even with your best friend about his weaknesses. E.g 'my husband is a drunk, he's stingy, he's too demanding, he don't even know he has a family, he don't appreciate me, etc. Sure, those gossips will go round and he 'll hear it. If this happens, you are in hot soup... Trust men now!

**Never dream of controlling your man with orders. For your marriage to be a bliss, the word 'must' should be kept aside. Frankly, men hate orders especially those from women.

**Make cleanliness you priority. Water and soap are invaluable assets to beget in a home. Without these two, people will cease to attract humans but flies. Do his washings, your children's and yours always. Kitchen, toilet(s) and bathroom(s) should be as neat as the living rooms. Cleanliness is next to godliness.

**Dress smartly but decently always. As a mother, there are some clothes you are supposed to avoid. Dress godly.

**Eat and pray together. Many a time, these two occasions are the only time the family comes together. It's here that you teach your children table manners and other things (praticals) apart from the 'theories' their teacher teaches them at school. Remember that a family that eats and prays together stays together!

**Cultivate a good reading habit in your children and help them with their assignments. Know your children's friends and their parents.

**Avoid pampering your children or making them fear your cane more than you. Usually, either of the two makes your kids as stubborn as a grass.

**Finally love your parents-in-law as you do or possibly more than your biological parents. If you can get hold of these two, sure, your huby is at your beck and call.
You can make your marriage work again. To all married ladies, i wish them Happy married life!! To those that are still searching, i wish them the same in advance!!
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